Rules are more nuanced than habits
Track daily, weekly, situational, and ongoing expectations without forcing them into a one-size-fits-all productivity tool.
Privacy-first for kink, D/s, and structured relationships
Private rule tracking for real dynamics.
TiedUp is the privacy-first rule and reflection app for kink, D/s, and structured relationships, built for rules, rituals, accountability, and check-ins, not generic streaks and workaround-heavy habit tracking.
Privacy-first
Built for kink and D/s
Solo or partner-friendly
Free to start
Useful now
Useful now, improving with real early feedback.
TiedUp is already built to help you track rules, rituals, and reflection in one private place. Start with the routines that matter now, use the free plan to build your workflow, and grow with the app as it gets deeper over time.
Why generic tools miss
Generic habit trackers were not built for this.
Rules, protocols, and structured relationship dynamics need more than checkboxes and streak counters. You need privacy, context, nuance, and a way to reflect on what actually happened.
Context matters as much as completion
Attach notes, moods, and reflections to your check-ins so your history means something.
Privacy is not optional
Use discreet mode, neutral visuals, and a product designed to keep sensitive routines low-profile.
Shared accountability needs structure
Support solo practice, partner dynamics, and structured relationships without living in spreadsheets or patched-together notes.
Core value
Built for privacy, structure, and real daily use.
The product is meant to feel calm, discreet, and immediately useful, while still giving your routines enough structure to hold up over time.
Privacy that respects the use case
Discreet mode, neutral surfaces, and control over your space help keep your routines private when you need them to stay low-profile.
Rules and rituals in one system
Track recurring rules, protocols, situational expectations, and personal routines without awkward workarounds.
Reflection tied to accountability
Log notes, check-ins, and patterns so you can learn from what is working, what is slipping, and what needs to change.
Useful solo or shared
Use TiedUp for your own structure, or expand into shared visibility and accountability when your dynamic involves a partner.
How it works
Start with the routines you already care about.
Create your first rules, check in daily without friction, keep notes attached to what happened, and use trends over time to understand what is working in your dynamic.
Create rules around the routines you already care about
Set up daily, weekly, one-time, ongoing, and situational expectations in a flow that fits real structure instead of generic habits.
- Create rules for daily, weekly, one-time, or situational expectations.
- Keep cadence, ownership, tags, and notes together in one focused setup flow.
- Start with what already matters to your dynamic instead of rebuilding your life around a generic app.
Check in daily without losing context
Move through the day-to-day workflow quickly, then keep notes and reflection attached to what actually happened.
- Log check-ins, notes, and reflection in context.
- See what applies today without opening a pile of separate tools.
- Keep solo and shared accountability in one place.
Review patterns over time
Look back at heatmaps, streaks, and trends so you can see what is working in your dynamic and what needs adjustment.
- Review heatmaps, streaks, and trends over time.
- See where routines are stable and where they keep slipping.
- Use real history to support better conversations and clearer accountability.
Who it is for
Best for people who already know generic tools do not fit.
TiedUp meets people who already have routines, expectations, or accountability practices and want something more fitting than a generic tracker.
Solo practitioners
Keep your own rules, rituals, and accountability in one place with full privacy and personal control.
D/s and power dynamics
Track shared rules, review check-ins, and create more structure around accountability and reflection.
Structured partnerships
Coordinate expectations, rituals, and agreements with more nuance than a checklist app can hold.
People using workarounds today
If you are currently using notes apps, spreadsheets, or generic habit trackers, TiedUp gives those routines a better home.
Start free
Start free, with enough room to build a real routine.
The free plan gives you enough space to set up your first workflow, track what matters, and decide whether you want more depth later.
- Up to 25 active rules
- Daily check-ins and journaling
- 30-day heatmap history
- Partner linking for up to two active connections
No credit card required to get started.
Paid plans
More depth when you need it.
Paid plan pricing below is loaded from the live admin-configured catalog, so the public page stays aligned with the products available in the app.
All paid plans begin after you create an account.
Free
A generous starting point for solo use, lighter shared routines, and getting your first workflow in place.
$0 / forever
No credit card required
Build a real routine first, then decide later if you need more depth.
- Up to 25 active rules
- Daily check-ins and journaling
- 30-day heatmap history
- Partner linking for up to two active connections
Start with the free plan today. Paid options will expand as TiedUp grows.
🌱 1% of every paid subscription goes to Stripe Climate to help remove CO₂ from the atmosphere.
Early users
Early users are already using it for real routines.
TiedUp was shaped by early users who wanted something more private, more structured, and more useful than generic tracking tools.
"It feels much more private than trying to keep this in a notes app, and it still gives me real daily structure."
Early access user
"This is the first tool that feels built for our dynamic instead of something we have to awkwardly adapt."
Partnered early user
"I could start using it right away, and the reflection piece made it more useful than a basic habit tracker almost immediately."
Solo early tester
Start privately
Start free and build your routine privately.
Set up your first rules, track what matters, and use a tool designed for real dynamics, not generic productivity.